#DeathAndDying Archives

Let us eat cake and talk about death

I started a virtual Death Cafe shortly after starting my practice. I discontinued after a about a year due to other obligations, but I’m starting them again. I will host another community Death Cafe-style virtual event on Tuesday, May 14 at 6:30 PM ET. It is free and open to anyone, and the conversations can be about anything that you feel you need to talk about. Holding these conversations by Zoom allows everyone to participate and gives us all a sense of togetherness, but if you’re not ready to share with strangers, I’m available for private chats as well. I’m still looking for a location to do an in-person event locally where I can also livestream for those who want to attend remotely. A few people have asked about Instagram or Facebook Live, but those venues don’t facilitate conversations between each other, which is the benefit and foundation of a Death Cafe. I also am available in my private group Solace Sanctuary if people would feel more comfortable carrying on discussions or continuing discussion that way. It is a safe and sacred space where anyone can talk about death, dying, aging, grief and other “big” life and death stuff.

The Tradition of National Wreaths Across America

Saturday was National Wreaths Across America. I donated a wreath and spent some time at the National Cemetery in New Albany last weekend in honor of the occasion. National Wreaths Across America is a heartfelt and patriotic tradition that takes place annually, bringing communities together to honor and remember the brave men and women who have served in every branch of the United States Armed Forces. This poignant event, marked by the laying of wreaths on the graves of veterans, symbolizes gratitude, remembrance, and a collective commitment to never forget the sacrifices made for freedom, but I believe it can be a wonderful opportunity to honor and remember our own beloved deceased loved ones, whether or not they were veterans.

The American Healthcare System and End of Life Care

Hey there, folks! Today, let’s talk about something that’s been a topic of discussion for quite a while – the good ol’ American healthcare system. Now, we’re all familiar with the infamous saying, “If it ain’t broke, don’t fix it.” But when it comes to the US healthcare system, it seems like the saying might need a little tweaking – “If it’s broke, let’s talk about fixing it!”

National Tattoo Day

It’s National Tattoo Day.

Do you have any special or memorial tattoos. I’d love to see and hear the stories of them. Some of our inked art holds deep personal meaning, and serves as beautiful reminders of loved ones who have left an indelible mark on our lives.

Memorial tattoos are a unique way to keep cherished memories close. Each one tells a story of love, loss, and the enduring connection we hold with those we miss. We have a permanent reminder to keep our loved one close to us in our thoughts to inspire and guide us.

Are we ready for the gray wave?

In 2014, fifteen percent of the United States population consisted of Americans aged 65 or older. Every single day 10,000 people turn 65 in this country. The oldest boomer alive this year is 77. By 2030, every single Baby Boomer will be aged 65. People who reach 65 could be expected to live another 18.4 years on average.

Mom’s Deathiversary

It has been 4 years. Some days it feels like yesterday. Grief and loss is transformational. I’m not the person I was when my mom was still alive. Thats grief, but that’s also growth. I think she’d like who I have become.

You are the love the world needs

It’s not news that things just seem more and more depressing and disheartening out there. I posted this video a couple weeks ago after yet another mass shooting in the U.S. Only when we can love ourselves can we love others, and it’s what the world needs now. (Thanks, Burt Bacharach!)